Menachem Mendel Bluming Muses: Mention the Matriarchs!
“Rabbi, why do the matriarchs not get mentioned as often as the
patriarchs in our prayers?” Bluming was asked recently by a congregant. After
all, our Sages teach that they were, in spiritual stature, even greater than
our patriarchs reflected in G-d’s commanding Abraham to listen to everything
that Sarah tells him. “Yet” Menachem Mendel Bluming was asked, we pray by
speaking of G-d as the G-d of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob rather than our
matriarchs Sarah, Rebecca, Rachel and Leah!”
“Here's one thought of many”, Bluming responded.
There is something unique about our forefathers, something the mothers
did not have.
They were an unbroken chain.
Abraham's son was Isaac. Isaac's son was Jacob. That's three generations
of commitment to Judaism. Abraham was the first Jew. Isaac was the first to be
born Jewish. And Jacob was the first grandchild to follow the Jewish path.
The mothers were all first generation Jews. The fathers were a continuum
of holiness.
This is profoundly significant. When faith survives for three
consecutive generations, it leaves a permanent mark. Until then, it is still
precarious. Abraham's path was followed by only one of his sons, Isaac, not
Ishmael. Isaac's legacy was passed on to Jacob, but not to Esau. It was Jacob,
the third generation, who bequeathed his spiritual heritage to all of his
children.
There have been many visionaries, saints and revolutionaries throughout
history who have walked the world's stage with big ideas to change humanity.
But Abraham was the first to make it into a family business. And that is what
made his revolution an eternal one.
So we mention the patriarchs in our prayers with the hope that our
descendants too, continue the precious unbroken chain. Here we are, four
thousand years later, still praying to the same G-d as they did. All because of
one man who not only lived a meaningful life, but taught it to his children and
grandchildren.
Menachem Mendel Bluming and Rabbi Moss